Were We Destined To Be Abused Based On Our Own Beliefs?

Evening looks back on her insecure younger self and how she sought a relationship that felt familiar to her. Coming from a narcissistic family with a severe overt narcissist father who didn't care about her needs or her preference, but demanded much, "familiar" lead her to find a man to marry who treated her the same way. Evening talks about how she sabotaged relationships with nice guys due to her being taught to not have needs while growing up.