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Abuse can cover an extensive variety of circumstances, from physical brutality, rape, enthusiastic control, harassing and verbal undermining from someone who has no conscience, Sociopath, narcissist, antisocial personality disorder. Ab...

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I have an enormous respect for the mind-body connection after I survived a rare and deadly coronary dissection (literally a broken heart), and then watched my husband and my own family attack me when I was most vulnerable provi...

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Gaslighting is a sophisticated manipulation tactic which certain types of personalities use to create doubt in the minds of others. Here’s how it works and what to watch out for. 

In a stage play and suspense thriller from the...

I have told the story of how I had a stress-related heart attack as a young, otherwise healthy mother of two little kids back in 2001.  Since then I have had enormous respect for the mind-body connection and the danger of chronic stress. The problem for most American w...

 Triangulation is a term that describes a narcissistic manipulation technique where they’ll triangulate three people (typically themselves, a wife, and a mistress). I have been involved in many triangulations in my life, as my ex-husband was a narcissist and there have...

 Every person, male or female, has both masculine and feminine energy. Masculine energy is the ‘doing’ energy. It’s the energy of competition, taking charge, of thinking and doing. It’s in the head. It’s how you get a career or get things done. Feminine energy is more...

One of the trademark traits of the narcissist is that they are able to manipulate others into doing their “dirty work” for them. They sit back and watch the show as the people around them go at it.

Narcissists have a gift for identifying unhealthy relationships, be it f...

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The Myth of Narcissistic Friends (A Tempting Illusion) we discuss the lengths to which an abusive person will go to avoid taking responsibility. We have been given the opportunity to examine how a manipulative person will attempt to actually gaslight thousands of peopl...

In Projection: How Narcissists Get Away with what They Do we talk about how we participate in the narcissists deception by projecting our good qualities onto them, and to refusing to believe them when they tell us who they are through their actions. We will believe the...